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DO PEOPLE LIKE YOU AND THINK YOU'RE INTERESTING?

Last week I went out with friends in Singapore who all work together. There was a new guy who was a new co-worker at their company. He was from Canada, so I figured it would be fun to chat with a fellow North American here in Asia.

It wasn’t.

He kept talking about himself. Leaning in way too close to me. Spitting on me. Talking too loud. Invading my personal space, not just physically but audibly. Trying to elicit some kind of impressed reaction from me that would validate him.

Are you unknowingly doing things that are making people dislike you?

 

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Posted on October 12, 2014 by Michelle McFarlane and filed under Image Communication and tagged how to get people to like you how to get more friends how to get people to listen to you how to make friends and influence people how to make friends how to make friends as an adult how to impress a girl how to impress a guy how to impress boss how to impress clients how to impress on first date how to impress people how to be interesting how to be interesting conversation how to be more interesting dale carnegie how to be interesting person how to be interesting conversationalist.

DO YOU HAVE A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION?

I introduced a new friend to some of my family members the other day and was completely embarrassed by my cousin. My cousin was not in a good mood and had no qualms of showing her displeasure, even to a perfect stranger. She stood 10 feet away from the rest of my family and when I introduced her to my friend (from 10 feet away I had to shout a little), she turned her back and gave a dismissive hand gesture. I was shocked and embarrassed.

Horrible first impressions can kill a lot of opportunities.

Most of the time, people’s first impressions of you is established in 5 to 7 seconds. It doesn’t take long. That first impression will most likely stick with them for a long time. Or make them forget you in an instant. Or even worse, want to forget you. Those 5 to 7 seconds are crucial.

 

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Posted on September 16, 2014 by Michelle McFarlane and filed under Image Communication, Personal shopper, Personal stylist and tagged good first impression image consultant corporate image picture worth a thousand words body language judge a book by its cover Dating business success business relationships personal relationships feel good effective communication non-verbal communication strong positive feelings feel important feel valued good grooming sharp outfits polished clothing physical appearance wardrobe consultant communication tools.

THE POWER OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION AND YOUR IMAGE

To successfully communicate, you need to have a strong grasp of two languages. No, I don’t mean like Chinese or French. Although, kind of! I am talking languages where you need to learn how to "read", understand, interpret, and "speak" clearly to be effective. So in a way, yes, these languages are exactly like a spoken language.

The first is verbal language, also known as words. The second is non-verbal language, which consists of your facial expressions, your body language, your tone of voice, and your style expression.

Did you know that most communication is 93% non-verbal and 7% verbal? In some romantic situations, it’s 100% non-verbal! So what your body movements, facial expressions, and image are projecting are far more powerful than the words you are saying!

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Posted on September 8, 2014 by Michelle McFarlane and filed under Personal shopper, Personal stylist, Image Communication and tagged non-verbal communication body language facial expressions business success relationship success more clients better job miscommunication corporate image corporate branding business relationships love relationships effective communication style personal stylist personal shopper first impressions building rapport successful selling customer relations.